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I recently posted in the Daily Brew-Haha about New Year’s Resolutions.   My coven, OldeForest, has recently completed its annual Resolutions Ritual for coming year.  While traditional Witch’s New Year is Samhaine, OldeForest follows the turning of the Wheel in determining our correct time to move forward with action.  And so we wait until after Yule, when the Sun is in Capricorn, to set our ambitions. 

Between Samhaine and Yule, the Earth sleeps and moves deeply into the darkness.  It is not a good time to set goals when the Sun is dying, withering as it passes through Scorpio and into the pure fire mutable realm of Sagittarius.  Once Yule has passed and the Sun enters Capricorn, the solar year is reborn and the Sun gets his feet under Him again and begins the steep climb to Summer Solstice with surefooted tenacity.  Capricorn is actually half-goat and half-sea creature, carrying within the gifts of both land and sea, reality and deep intuition.  These are the energies we draw upon to set forth our goals — our firm and resolute ambitions for our lives coupled with our intuitive sense of what we need most to climb our own mountains in the year to come.

Each person in our group sets goals for himself or herself, and these goals typically fall in one of five areas:  Financial, Physical, Social/Emotional, Mental, and Spiritual.  Each of these areas corresponds to various chakras, if you will, or points on the pentagram (some of the correspondences may surprise you).  However, arguing over which element belongs to Financial goals isn’t the point of this article series. 

What I’d like to take time to discuss are how each of these five areas I’ve listed must be kept in vital health if you would call yourself a Witch.  In the upcoming articles on this topic, I’ll reference some history and some common sense and hopefully will inspire you to make some goals for yourself in these areas for 2010.  I’ll close the series with some practical advice on goal setting and the SMART technique for wording your goals in a way that allows you to measure your progress.

Remember that part of being a Witch is the never-ending process of transformation.  Resolutions (re-solutions… you know, re-solving problems you haven’t quite figured out yet?) are a time-honored way of choosing one’s crucible and one’s fire in which to render the Self a more pure and efficient tool.  Acceptance of your personal flaws is but a step on the journey.  A real Witch assesses the flaws within, accepts them as they are, and then seeks to transcend those flaws through willed change.

You know what you need to do.  Make this your year to do it.

Photo by Eddi 07 (via Flickr).


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  • “A real Witch assesses the flaws within, accepts them as they are, and then seeks to transcend those flaws through willed change.”

    Love this statement…it doesn’t say real witches have no flaws, nor does it say they aim for absolute perfection…it says that a witch “seeks to transcend…through willed change.” The journey continues for all of us, seeking re-solutions to old problems using our will and ALL the tools at our disposal.

    Inherent in the statement is the notion that acceptance and a nonjudgmental approach to ourselves is essential. At the same time, accepting ourselves as we are, loving ourselves flaws and all, does not mean complacency. Honestly acknowledging our strengths as well as our shortcomings, not passing judgment, and working to make positive change is self acceptance at its finest.

     
    • I think that follow-through is indeed the mark of mature self-acceptance. It’s fairly common though for people to stop with “I accept myself” and to use that phrase in a way that really means “I except myself”, meaning excusing one’s self from further responsibility beyond accepting. It’s perfectly ok and possible to be both gentle with yourself and yet willing to go beyond where you are. That doesn’t mean you aren’t accepting yourself, only that you are ACCEPTING the responsibility for transforming your current moment and state into something you CHOOSE instead of something that you “can’t help”.

      I hope that makes sense. :-)

       

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