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		<title>By: Andrea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 20:03:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply! That really does make a lot of sense since I am at a strange place in my life, a crossroads of sorts, I think the decision making is stressing me out. It&#039;s difficult to keep a dream journal of these dreams since I hardly ever remember having them, which I suppose isn&#039;t the worst thing. I usually find out from disgruntled sleeping partners that I sat up in bed yelling or saying something about being crushed. It&#039;s very odd. I know I have had them for much of my life, and have wondered if something happened as a child. I will try everything you&#039;ve mentioned. Also, I apologize for not placing this in the Q.A. section... I suppose that would have been more appropriate. Brain fart. lol. Thank you again, you have definitely shed some light on this mystery.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply! That really does make a lot of sense since I am at a strange place in my life, a crossroads of sorts, I think the decision making is stressing me out. It&#8217;s difficult to keep a dream journal of these dreams since I hardly ever remember having them, which I suppose isn&#8217;t the worst thing. I usually find out from disgruntled sleeping partners that I sat up in bed yelling or saying something about being crushed. It&#8217;s very odd. I know I have had them for much of my life, and have wondered if something happened as a child. I will try everything you&#8217;ve mentioned. Also, I apologize for not placing this in the Q.A. section&#8230; I suppose that would have been more appropriate. Brain fart. lol. Thank you again, you have definitely shed some light on this mystery.</p>
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		<title>By: Sitara Haye</title>
		<link>http://sitarahaye.com/2009/09/01/creating-a-dream-journal/comment-page-1/#comment-3310</link>
		<dc:creator>Sitara Haye</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 06:09:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Recurrent dreams are highly symbolic for the dreamer.  However, you have to keep in mind that they are also very individual, tailored for the person who is dreaming.  

I have recurrent dreams of tornados when I undergo certain situations in my life.  The setting of my dreams is also symbolic -- my &quot;safe place&quot; is a particular house that is special to no one but me, but any time I dream of it, I know that I am under &quot;attack&quot; or in &quot;confrontation&quot; with an aspect of my life, myself, or another astral entity and I am automatically putting myself in my safest space.

There is always the possibility of recurring nightmares having to do with a past life, however, I rarely find that dreams are so literal.  This is one of the reasons that dream journals are so vital to learning your dream language.  Charting your dreams along with a journal of what you have been going through in your waking hours can help you notice trends in your stress patterns, your experiences, relationships with others that might trigger those dreams, and so forth.  You might discover that running into a particular person triggers your crushing dreams.  You might find that when you are feeling out of control regarding money, you have a crushing dream, or perhaps the trigger is when you are choking back on something you need to say and it is smothering you from the inside.  If you are claustrophobic, are there situations in your life that are &quot;boxing you in&quot; and making you feel entrapped? 

Many times, our minds use metaphors for our internal struggles, so being &quot;crushed&quot; could have to do with crushing emotional pain you haven&#039;t yet dealt with, or feeling trapped, or not feeling like you have the freedom to determine your life&#039;s course, or actual leftover trauma and post-traumatic stress from being in a situation where you were taken advantage of against your will.

Healing these inner fears is a long process.  You can begin to balance the scales by countering the fear with detached affirmations:  I am safe.  I have all the space I need.  I have room to breathe.  I am free to live my life.  I am allowed to just be.  I am secure within myself.  The world is a safe and healthy place for me.  No one can make me do what is against my will. 

I do suggest that if the panic attacks are frequent and disturb your daily functioning, that you seek professional counseling.  While it isn&#039;t always the case, it does happen often enough that we suppress events that cause us too much pain.  You can ask your family if something happened when you were a child that caused you a claustrophobic moment -- you might be surprised how that turns up later on in your dreams, even though you can&#039;t consciously remember it.  Also, remember that, if it&#039;s a past-life memory, it&#039;s past.  Not present.  Release the memory into the past and let it go, even if you don&#039;t know what it is exactly.  It is far more likely to be a psychological response to something in THIS life, either something that occurred when you were younger, or a feeling that translates into your mind as &quot;being crushed&quot;.  

Keep that journal going, look for patterns, and counter your fear with the calmness of knowing you are loved by the Gods and safe in this world.  

Warmest wishes for peaceful dreams,
Sitara</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Recurrent dreams are highly symbolic for the dreamer.  However, you have to keep in mind that they are also very individual, tailored for the person who is dreaming.  </p>
<p>I have recurrent dreams of tornados when I undergo certain situations in my life.  The setting of my dreams is also symbolic &#8212; my &#8220;safe place&#8221; is a particular house that is special to no one but me, but any time I dream of it, I know that I am under &#8220;attack&#8221; or in &#8220;confrontation&#8221; with an aspect of my life, myself, or another astral entity and I am automatically putting myself in my safest space.</p>
<p>There is always the possibility of recurring nightmares having to do with a past life, however, I rarely find that dreams are so literal.  This is one of the reasons that dream journals are so vital to learning your dream language.  Charting your dreams along with a journal of what you have been going through in your waking hours can help you notice trends in your stress patterns, your experiences, relationships with others that might trigger those dreams, and so forth.  You might discover that running into a particular person triggers your crushing dreams.  You might find that when you are feeling out of control regarding money, you have a crushing dream, or perhaps the trigger is when you are choking back on something you need to say and it is smothering you from the inside.  If you are claustrophobic, are there situations in your life that are &#8220;boxing you in&#8221; and making you feel entrapped? </p>
<p>Many times, our minds use metaphors for our internal struggles, so being &#8220;crushed&#8221; could have to do with crushing emotional pain you haven&#8217;t yet dealt with, or feeling trapped, or not feeling like you have the freedom to determine your life&#8217;s course, or actual leftover trauma and post-traumatic stress from being in a situation where you were taken advantage of against your will.</p>
<p>Healing these inner fears is a long process.  You can begin to balance the scales by countering the fear with detached affirmations:  I am safe.  I have all the space I need.  I have room to breathe.  I am free to live my life.  I am allowed to just be.  I am secure within myself.  The world is a safe and healthy place for me.  No one can make me do what is against my will. </p>
<p>I do suggest that if the panic attacks are frequent and disturb your daily functioning, that you seek professional counseling.  While it isn&#8217;t always the case, it does happen often enough that we suppress events that cause us too much pain.  You can ask your family if something happened when you were a child that caused you a claustrophobic moment &#8212; you might be surprised how that turns up later on in your dreams, even though you can&#8217;t consciously remember it.  Also, remember that, if it&#8217;s a past-life memory, it&#8217;s past.  Not present.  Release the memory into the past and let it go, even if you don&#8217;t know what it is exactly.  It is far more likely to be a psychological response to something in THIS life, either something that occurred when you were younger, or a feeling that translates into your mind as &#8220;being crushed&#8221;.  </p>
<p>Keep that journal going, look for patterns, and counter your fear with the calmness of knowing you are loved by the Gods and safe in this world.  </p>
<p>Warmest wishes for peaceful dreams,<br />
Sitara</p>
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		<title>By: Andrea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 01:58:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not sure if this is the right place to put this, but it is something that has weighed on me my entire life. How would you interpret recurring nightmares? I, apparently even more than I realize, have a nightmare about being crushed. I wonder if this is a past life memory or a warning of some sort or what really... I wake up crying out (a lot of this I don&#039;t remember but have been told by my boyfriend the next day. Sometimes I do remember, sometimes I sleep walk, etc) and panicked frequently. I think it has something to do with claustrophobia. I am wondering if you could perhaps post something on ways to interpret/heal inner fears and nightmares. Thank you so much for your posts!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not sure if this is the right place to put this, but it is something that has weighed on me my entire life. How would you interpret recurring nightmares? I, apparently even more than I realize, have a nightmare about being crushed. I wonder if this is a past life memory or a warning of some sort or what really&#8230; I wake up crying out (a lot of this I don&#8217;t remember but have been told by my boyfriend the next day. Sometimes I do remember, sometimes I sleep walk, etc) and panicked frequently. I think it has something to do with claustrophobia. I am wondering if you could perhaps post something on ways to interpret/heal inner fears and nightmares. Thank you so much for your posts!</p>
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		<title>By: Sitara Haye</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sitara Haye</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2009 13:40:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Under your pillow is better than skin contact, especially if you are sensitive.  Putting a stone directly on a chakra can be like taking a drug under your tongue -- it&#039;s instantly in your system.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Under your pillow is better than skin contact, especially if you are sensitive.  Putting a stone directly on a chakra can be like taking a drug under your tongue &#8212; it&#8217;s instantly in your system.</p>
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		<title>By: Courtney</title>
		<link>http://sitarahaye.com/2009/09/01/creating-a-dream-journal/comment-page-1/#comment-1771</link>
		<dc:creator>Courtney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 00:02:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When you said never sleep with the powerful stones directly on your chakaras, what happens if you do?
Also, is it alright if you fall asleep with them under your pillow?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you said never sleep with the powerful stones directly on your chakaras, what happens if you do?<br />
Also, is it alright if you fall asleep with them under your pillow?</p>
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		<title>By: Millie Fee</title>
		<link>http://sitarahaye.com/2009/09/01/creating-a-dream-journal/comment-page-1/#comment-1395</link>
		<dc:creator>Millie Fee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 12:25:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Realy and truly your dreams are already there...You dream every time you go into REM, it&#039;s training your mind to hold onto those dreams. You may not think you are dreaming but you are.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Realy and truly your dreams are already there&#8230;You dream every time you go into REM, it&#8217;s training your mind to hold onto those dreams. You may not think you are dreaming but you are.</p>
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		<title>By: RubyDragon</title>
		<link>http://sitarahaye.com/2009/09/01/creating-a-dream-journal/comment-page-1/#comment-1331</link>
		<dc:creator>RubyDragon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 04:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is there a way to get the dreams to start? I rarely have any kind of dreams that I remember maybe only 3 or 4 in my life. I don&#039;t even feel like I have dreamed when I wake. It&#039;s more like turning on a switch I&#039;m either on or totally off.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is there a way to get the dreams to start? I rarely have any kind of dreams that I remember maybe only 3 or 4 in my life. I don&#8217;t even feel like I have dreamed when I wake. It&#8217;s more like turning on a switch I&#8217;m either on or totally off.</p>
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		<title>By: Sitara Haye</title>
		<link>http://sitarahaye.com/2009/09/01/creating-a-dream-journal/comment-page-1/#comment-1329</link>
		<dc:creator>Sitara Haye</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 04:20:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah, I neglected to mention dreams as a source of inspiration and creativity.  Thanks for popping that in there!  Congrats on working to a place where you no longer need the journal.  It&#039;s a wonderful developmental tool, though, to be sure.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, I neglected to mention dreams as a source of inspiration and creativity.  Thanks for popping that in there!  Congrats on working to a place where you no longer need the journal.  It&#8217;s a wonderful developmental tool, though, to be sure.</p>
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		<title>By: Amos Keppler</title>
		<link>http://sitarahaye.com/2009/09/01/creating-a-dream-journal/comment-page-1/#comment-1328</link>
		<dc:creator>Amos Keppler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 04:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dreams are doorways to many things. They can be inspiring, informative or just stories for a writer to explore, all of it very valuable.

 I don&#039;t need to write it down anymore. I remember all of it. It doesn&#039;t fade away since I learned the very useful power of memory repetition.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dreams are doorways to many things. They can be inspiring, informative or just stories for a writer to explore, all of it very valuable.</p>
<p> I don&#8217;t need to write it down anymore. I remember all of it. It doesn&#8217;t fade away since I learned the very useful power of memory repetition.</p>
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		<title>By: Avren</title>
		<link>http://sitarahaye.com/2009/09/01/creating-a-dream-journal/comment-page-1/#comment-1325</link>
		<dc:creator>Avren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 03:58:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I totally agree. Shouldn&#039;t you be in bed right now?  *Laughing*  It&#039;s late on you side o&#039; the country.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally agree. Shouldn&#8217;t you be in bed right now?  *Laughing*  It&#8217;s late on you side o&#8217; the country.</p>
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