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A couple of days ago I mentioned that I’d had a dream about someone and then saw them the very next day.  I wouldn’t have known this without the use of a dream journal so I could track how my dreams tend to work and what mean for me.  When I begin training someone in the Craft, I have them set up a magickal journal.  This later becomes the base of their Book of Shadows.  One part of their magickal journal is dedicated to dreams.

To say that dreams are important in the training of a Witch is one of the biggest understatements I can make.  Dreams provide valuable information about ourselves, our hopes and fears, what is and what will be and what we fear may be.  Dreamwork can show us where we are on our path and what lessons we are currently learning.  There are, of course, the dreams that are just our physical computers “processing” the input and experiences of the day.  And then there are the really significant dreams that mark milestones, give us warning, and help us grow.  Keeping a dream journal helps you sort out between these kinds of dreams by learning your own dream patterns and dream timing as well as your personal dream symbology.

Here are some tips for creating and working with a Dream Journal:

GET A SPECIAL BOOK DEDICATED SOLELY TO YOUR DREAMS. Don’t mix your dream work in with all your other magickal notes.  They really do need a separate place for ease, convenience and just the sheer dedication of having it all in one place.

KEEP IT BY YOUR BED AT ALL TIMES. It won’t do you any good to have it if you can’t find it or if you have to go get it.  You won’t believe how many things I forget in the morning between the bedside and the toilet.  By the time I get up and moving and start mentally ordering my day, if I haven’t taken care of the dream-writing-down-thing, there’s a good chance I won’t get to it.  Keep pens by the bed, too.  The curse of never being able to find a pen when you need one works just as well in the morning as it does beside the telephone.

WRITE DOWN YOUR DREAM AS SOON AS YOU WAKE UP. Don’t wait.  Remembering a dream is like chasing after the tail of a receding Dragon.  The Dragon is powerful and wise but always on the move.  If you want to own your power in your dreams, grab that Dragon as soon as you wake and write down every thing it grumbles before it fades into the morning mist.

SAY A MANTRA BEFORE YOU SLEEP. Before you lie down to sleep, tell yourself as you drift off, “I will remember my dreams easily and in great detail.” The more times you can say this as you fall asleep, the better programmed your mind will be to do just that upon waking.

KEEP SOME STONES THAT AID WITH DREAMWORK BY YOUR BED. I keep Labradorite by my bed (really, I keep it on me pretty much all the time).  Kyanite is probably the best dream stone with which I’ve ever worked.  It is a strong psychic opener, however, so if you find yourself too tired after using it, put it aside for a few days.  Sugilite encourages symbolism in dreams to help with spiritual development.  Holding these stones for a few minutes as you say your dream recall mantra helps give a little boost to your dreamwork.  Sleeping with them under your pillow gives a stronger input from the stones.  For strongest energy influence, I suggest making a small medicine “bracelet” (a tiny pouch worn on the wrist).  I do not recommend sleeping with the stones in direct contact with the skin unless you are well-developed in your dreamwork.  Definitely do not fall asleep with these powerful stones directly on your chakras.

MAKE A DREAM PILLOW FOR RELAXATION AND DREAM WORK. These are easy to make and give you the benefits of the stones and aromatheraphy.  Make a little cloth pillow and fill it with mugwort and lavender.  Put in a small piece of the stones listed above as well as a piece of protective stones such as onyx, obsidian, black tourmaline or smokey quartz.  Make the pillow about the size of a small sachet and keep it in your pillow case.  The aromatherapy will help you relax and the herbs themselves and the stones provide a supportive net for dreamwork.

PRAY. Never underestimate the power of asking the Gods to bring you dreams and help you remember them.

WRITE DOWN THE FACTS OF THE DAY.  These would be:  the date, the time, the moon phase and the sign the moon is in.  If you’re a woman, you might consider writing down how close you are to beginning your menses or your ovulation (women have peak days for dreaming that are tied to their cycles, and they can be different for every woman).

WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU REMEMBER WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT IT TOO HARD. If you have the ability to write in shorthand, it will help you.  Get the dream down as fast as you can in as raw language as you can.  You won’t be interpreting the dream today anyway, so it won’t matter.  What does matter is getting down everything you can possible recall.  Fast.

PUT THE DREAM AWAY FOR ABOUT A WEEK. Don’t try to interpret the dream for about a week.  It can be hard to interpret a dream when you’re too close to it.  Putting the dream aside can make things pop out you never connected together because your brain has integrated the experience of the dream more.  Try it — you’ll see.  It’s easier if you separate the notation from the interpretation.

SHARE THE DREAM WITH SOMEONE WHO IS GOOD AT DREAM INTERPRETATION. This happens to be one of my talents.  I know I’m not the only one good at it.  Having someone go over your dream with you can help you figure out what it means.  It also allows the Gods to speak through someone else and offer up a meaning you might not have seen for yourself.

If you haven’t already started writing down your dreams and keeping them, please do.  It’s worth all the time it takes to do it and you will grow in leaps and bounds faster than those who are not harnassing the power of their dreams.  If you have questions about a dream or a symbol, feel free to post it to the Q&A section of the blog here.  Just remember to let me know if you want the question shared or not — I want to make sure your privacy isn’t violated.

Let me know how it goes!

Photo by Eddi 07 (via Flickr).


12 Comments

  • You are right about sharing with someone good at dream interpretation. I had a customer I had never seen before, come into the local bar I worked at. He was very nice and happen to pay attention to the far way look in my eye. When He asked I told him about a dream I had the night before, it was powerful but unclear to me. When I told him he asked about events in my life and the next thing I knew he had interpreted my dream in a way that felt right. I never saw him again but I remember him and that dream to this day.

     
    • People can come into your life for just such a thing as that! Sometimes your symbolism isn’t for you at all but for the person you’re meant to run into who will be helping you with the dream. How crazy is THAT? I find it rather awe-inspiring and further proof that we are meant to connect with each other along our journeys.

       
  • Dreams are doorways to many things. They can be inspiring, informative or just stories for a writer to explore, all of it very valuable.

    I don’t need to write it down anymore. I remember all of it. It doesn’t fade away since I learned the very useful power of memory repetition.

     
  • Is there a way to get the dreams to start? I rarely have any kind of dreams that I remember maybe only 3 or 4 in my life. I don’t even feel like I have dreamed when I wake. It’s more like turning on a switch I’m either on or totally off.

     
    • Realy and truly your dreams are already there…You dream every time you go into REM, it’s training your mind to hold onto those dreams. You may not think you are dreaming but you are.

       
  • When you said never sleep with the powerful stones directly on your chakaras, what happens if you do?
    Also, is it alright if you fall asleep with them under your pillow?

     
  • I’m not sure if this is the right place to put this, but it is something that has weighed on me my entire life. How would you interpret recurring nightmares? I, apparently even more than I realize, have a nightmare about being crushed. I wonder if this is a past life memory or a warning of some sort or what really… I wake up crying out (a lot of this I don’t remember but have been told by my boyfriend the next day. Sometimes I do remember, sometimes I sleep walk, etc) and panicked frequently. I think it has something to do with claustrophobia. I am wondering if you could perhaps post something on ways to interpret/heal inner fears and nightmares. Thank you so much for your posts!

     
    • Recurrent dreams are highly symbolic for the dreamer. However, you have to keep in mind that they are also very individual, tailored for the person who is dreaming.

      I have recurrent dreams of tornados when I undergo certain situations in my life. The setting of my dreams is also symbolic — my “safe place” is a particular house that is special to no one but me, but any time I dream of it, I know that I am under “attack” or in “confrontation” with an aspect of my life, myself, or another astral entity and I am automatically putting myself in my safest space.

      There is always the possibility of recurring nightmares having to do with a past life, however, I rarely find that dreams are so literal. This is one of the reasons that dream journals are so vital to learning your dream language. Charting your dreams along with a journal of what you have been going through in your waking hours can help you notice trends in your stress patterns, your experiences, relationships with others that might trigger those dreams, and so forth. You might discover that running into a particular person triggers your crushing dreams. You might find that when you are feeling out of control regarding money, you have a crushing dream, or perhaps the trigger is when you are choking back on something you need to say and it is smothering you from the inside. If you are claustrophobic, are there situations in your life that are “boxing you in” and making you feel entrapped?

      Many times, our minds use metaphors for our internal struggles, so being “crushed” could have to do with crushing emotional pain you haven’t yet dealt with, or feeling trapped, or not feeling like you have the freedom to determine your life’s course, or actual leftover trauma and post-traumatic stress from being in a situation where you were taken advantage of against your will.

      Healing these inner fears is a long process. You can begin to balance the scales by countering the fear with detached affirmations: I am safe. I have all the space I need. I have room to breathe. I am free to live my life. I am allowed to just be. I am secure within myself. The world is a safe and healthy place for me. No one can make me do what is against my will.

      I do suggest that if the panic attacks are frequent and disturb your daily functioning, that you seek professional counseling. While it isn’t always the case, it does happen often enough that we suppress events that cause us too much pain. You can ask your family if something happened when you were a child that caused you a claustrophobic moment — you might be surprised how that turns up later on in your dreams, even though you can’t consciously remember it. Also, remember that, if it’s a past-life memory, it’s past. Not present. Release the memory into the past and let it go, even if you don’t know what it is exactly. It is far more likely to be a psychological response to something in THIS life, either something that occurred when you were younger, or a feeling that translates into your mind as “being crushed”.

      Keep that journal going, look for patterns, and counter your fear with the calmness of knowing you are loved by the Gods and safe in this world.

      Warmest wishes for peaceful dreams,
      Sitara

       
  • Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply! That really does make a lot of sense since I am at a strange place in my life, a crossroads of sorts, I think the decision making is stressing me out. It’s difficult to keep a dream journal of these dreams since I hardly ever remember having them, which I suppose isn’t the worst thing. I usually find out from disgruntled sleeping partners that I sat up in bed yelling or saying something about being crushed. It’s very odd. I know I have had them for much of my life, and have wondered if something happened as a child. I will try everything you’ve mentioned. Also, I apologize for not placing this in the Q.A. section… I suppose that would have been more appropriate. Brain fart. lol. Thank you again, you have definitely shed some light on this mystery.

     

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