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sekhmetA comment was made deep in another thread by a reader that stirred up the Goddess in me so fiercely that I couldn’t sleep.  Nothing like Sekhmet padding through your brain to keep you from the Dreamtime.

Again, the same questions — can I call myself a Wiccan if I’m not initiated?  Can I be a Witch if I’m not a Gardnerian?  What about the Council of Witches and their 13 principles — don’t those count for anything?  Why do I feel like such a fraud?  Why do I have to dissect my spiritual practice to avoid offending people or misrepresenting myself?

Anyway, I’ve posted my response here because it needs saying.  I mean no disrespect to Gard or Lexi Witches.  If anything, I feel like those that ARE lineaged but who don’t practice exactly what was passed down to them need to stop trading on the lineage byline for what it can get them.  At the same time, these arguments are tearing the faith in twain.  All over a damn word –  a WORD!

As I said to one of your fellow readers:

“Bless your heart… there are times I just absolutely want to scream over the semantics.  Here’s the situation:

“Originally, Wicca as Gerald Gardner introduced it was/is an initiatory religion.  This means you need to be initiated into it in order to be considered Wiccan.  Then, Gerald went and published multiple books about Wicca, giving examples of how to do things.  Then his initiates went and did the same thing.  And their initiates did the same thing.  A version of the Telephone Game ensued, information got out, people rebelled, Books of Shadows got published, secrets were told, some folks flat-out gave away the information and Voila!  Cat’s out of the bag.  To me, if Wicca was meant to be uber-secret and keep its traditional format passed on in traditional ways, why the hell did Gerald Gardner publish all of this stuff?  Why didn’t Doreen and Alex and The Farrar’s and Buckland and all the rest just lock it back down instead of helping the process along?  And why, oh WHY, do people insist on continuing to trace their lineage back to someone who, by all counts of what a “secret tradition” means, could very well be counted an oathbreaker for revealing something that was meant to only be passed on in the strictest of ritually secure formats?  Alright, that’s one rant.

“So, rather than bemoan 60+ years of history and how it’s all gone down, Wicca being peddled by its founders and initiates to the extent that now people are taking it and running with it all on their own… we have to accept the landscape as it is.  Even those who have gone through Gardnerian training, if they do not pass on the full measure of the Tradition and their training (in my opinion), THEY DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO CLAIM GARDNERIAN LINEAGE EITHER.  It’s not the stupid slap on the naked bottom that is important — it’s the TRADITIONS.  There are lots of folks running around with Gardnerian and Alexandrian lineage, boasting about their Lineage Merit Badge, and they don’t do a bloody damn thing that even smacks of what a traditional Gard or Lexi coven does.  So that further muddies the waters.

“And then there are those that took the basic Wiccan formats, Wheels, and Wisdoms and created something similar-but-new and named it something else.  And you know what?  Since over 50% of what they did (usually MOST of what they did) came from Wicca, they (DUH!) called it Wicca.  Kinda like a person who is 75% Caucasian and 25% Hispanic is pretty likely to call themselves Caucasian.  No one screams that they can’t call themselves Caucasian because they STOLE IT.  At the point it’s at now, this argument runs dangerously close to religious fascism.  We are NEVER going to be able to ‘pure blood’ it back to the beginning and eradicate everyone out there that calls themselves Wiccan and make them “do right”.  Most of what I practice is Wiccan  as I was taught and as I’ve found in hundreds of other books saying the basic same things – the format, the Laws, the Rede, the ritual structure, and so forth.  I get annoyed at times that the burden is on us to try and herd up the cats that the founders of Wicca let out of the bag originally.

“Let’s go a step further — currently, Wicca (through the efforts of folks who are NOT straight Gard or Lexi lineage) is recognized as an official religious faith by the US Military.  I would be willing to bet that it’s not the “practice skyclad, take ritual drugs and scourge each other” practice of the 8-fold path that got approved by the US.  There has been a lot of effort on the part of active Wiccans (pure bred or not) to get this recognition and I don’t see the wisdom in pitching the term when so much fighting has been done to get it publicized, recognized, and gaining acceptance.

“I’m going to be writing a series of articles very soon detailing the CoW’s 13 principles in great detail and bringing the discussion forward for the next generation.  For now, I can say I understand your feelings about feeling “fake”.  But you know what?  You only feel fake because you believe someone else has the right to tell you what and who you are and you believe they have more authority than you do.  Perhaps they do, if you want to be a Gard or Lexi Witch.  If that’s the case, do yourself the favor and go get that training so you’ll feel complete.  But if you don’t want to be a Gard or Lexi Witch, then why do you give their word so much weight?  Who made the first Gardnerian?  Who made the one that made HIM?  And so forth?  At some point, the buck is going to stop and all that’s going to be there is the Goddess.

“One last thing to ponder… where do you get your name?  You are given a name at birth, right?  But it’s just a name.  The name that means something is the name that you leave behind from the work that you do, not the name that was signed to a certificate in a hospital.  That’s a Word.  Your work is the Living Word.  We get too hung up on the Word and forget to spend the time focusing on how to LIVE the Word.

“It matters less to the Gods what we call ourselves.  What matters is how we answer the Call.  Remember that and be a good Witch.

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We have GOT to get past this pedigree thing.  It’s like the fucking Star-Bellied Sneetches of Witchcraft, pardon my French!  Remember that Dr. Seuss story?  Here’s a quick summary of the story from Wikipedia in case your childhood was deprived of Seuss-goodness:

sneetches“Sneetches are a group of vaguely avian yellow creatures who live on a beach. Some Sneetches have a green star on their bellies, and in the beginning of the story the absence of a star is the basis for discrimination. Sneetches who have stars on their bellies are part of the “in crowd”, while Sneetches without stars are shunned and consequently mopey.

“In the story, a “fix-it-up chappie” named Sylvester McMonkey McBean appears, driving a cart of strange machines. He offers the Sneetches without stars a chance to have them by going through his Star-On machine, for three dollars.

“The treatment is instantly popular, but this upsets the original star-bellied Sneetches, as they are in danger of losing their method for discriminating between Sneetches. Then McBean tells them about his Star-Off machine, costing ten dollars. The Sneetches formerly with stars happily pay the money to have them removed in order to remain special.

“However, McBean does not share the prejudices of the Sneetches, and allows the recently starred Sneetches through this machine as well. Ultimately this escalates, with the Sneetches running from one machine to the next,

“until neither the Plain nor the Star-Bellies knew
whether this one was that one or that one was this one
or which one was what one… or what one was who.”

“This continues until the Sneetches are penniless and McBean departs a rich man, amused by their folly. Despite his assertion that “you can’t teach a Sneetch,” the Sneetches learn from this experience that neither plain-belly nor star-belly Sneetches are superior, and they are able to get along and become friends.”

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We may not have some charlatan out there manipulating us, making money off our semantical squabbles.  But I find it ironic that the shape at the center of the Sneetch tale is a star — the symbol we all claim as central to our faith.  It is going to take some willingness on all parts to move forward and beyond this debate so we can focus on the path again instead of what we call the path.

I just hope that maybe, one day, those amusing lines penned by Dr. Seuss will be a triumphant statement of our maturity as a Faith:  [no one] knew whether this one was that one or that one was this one or which one was what one… or what one was who.

We’ll just know we’re One.  So Mote It Be!

Photo by Eddi o7 (via Flickr) and from Dr. Seuss’ The Sneetches And Other Tales.


18 Comments

  • I agree whole-heartedly with you and I think that for everyone here; who has not felt that reaction from others? One of my main reason’s for becoming a solitary was that I needed or trusted no amount of any instruction from anyone; because of my sense of betrayl from leaving christianity! This was something I not only needed to do on my own; but it was absolutely necessary for my growth and path. And it was that betrayl that directed the choice of my path work which was healthcare. I found healing in helping to comfort others. Which opened my eyes to the cycle of life and the continuity of life, which brought me to understanding Wicca, and to find that Wicca is more than a religious experience, or booklearning. It is living in the now, under no illusions…it is a way of life-your life. You do not need to give your power to someone else to be certified; why do we even want to go there after all the junk we see on the news every day from OTHERS who are in the process of doing just the very same thing? This is about you and your growth! You were given a gift-true freedom! Cherish it! Don’t throw that away, or even give it away! I welcome each and everyone one of you to my circle! And you are all precious to me! And your counsel is respected! Our paths are naturally going to be as varied and deliciously diverse and precious as who each and everyone of us are. As well as our experiences. And we draw from each other as well as from what we are taught throughout our lives…That is Wicca. We walk with our Mother the Earth. We are conscious of her and the seasons and the rhythms and tides and such. But our conscious path was not the same coming here, yet it was no less important. Our names of our Goddess’s and God’s may not be the same, but that does not negate the reality of each one’s experience. I welcome hearing differing aspects because it broadens my horizons and my circle of friends. And who dosent need true friends? Peace and Blessings

     
    • Really liked your response, Millie. Especially “it is living in the now, under no illusions… it is a way of life – your life.” I think that pretty well nails it.

       
    • We all learn from each other, that’s one of the biggest truths I know. Look at how our circle grows here with each new person who speaks up and shares. How many more opportunities we have to learn and question and delight in our lives, to ask freely and have multiple answers given to cause us to think and move forward in new ways.

      We’re not a circle, we’re one of those spirograph flowers — circles upon circles within circles around circles. :-)

       
  • Thank you for this article. Part of my confusion and discouragement before finding your site was the fact that so many people and articles told me I could neither call myself a Witch or a Wiccan because I didn’t have a Coven nor had I been initiated. What upset me most was not so much that I was being denied the use of the word to describe myself, but the fact that it made me feel I didn’t belong. After a life time of searching I had finally found where I belonged and the door was being shut in my face. It hurt to think that no matter how hard I worked or how much I learned I would always be on the outside looking in.
    When I found Marian Green’s book “A Witch Alone”, it gave me new hope. If I couldn’t be a part of the big picture, at least I could start painting one of my own.
    Then I found this site and now I realize I was never meant to stay on the outside, I just needed to find the right door.
    As I look back over the last 3 years I realize that the struggle to find my place on this path and the discouragement and hurt I felt was all a part of my learning process. It has made me stronger and more appreciative of my new home. Instead of letting me walk in the front door, the Goddess sent me all the way around the house, forcing me to open different doors, exploring different paths, and meeting different people so that when I finally did come to the right door, I would know it and could enter with confidence and joy, ready to meet any and all challenges the future may send my way.

     
    • Welcome home Sister! :)

       
      • Thank you Millie, you don’t know how good it feels to be home.

         
        • Thank-you Knevolyn and as for you Eileen….Uhhh! Does it have anything to do about finding Sitara and her wonderful site? She is a fountain of knowledge and wisdom; and Blessings to her and those who helped her to set up this site!

           
          • I’m a fountain of knowledge and wisdom, huh? I’m so glad you’ve only seen me at my most flowing and sparkling and not my soggy-and-sputtering moments (you know, where I end up all wet and speechless… wait, that happens during sex… wait, now, you definitely ain’t seein’ THAT!).

            *evil happy Friday-is-here grin*

             
          • Gotta butter ya up somehow! ;) and as for the visuals you can get the same effect as getting splashed by a taxi after a rainstorm does the same thing too! Peace and Blessings Evil grin back atcha!

             
    • I love the way you put that: Instead of walking in the front door, the Goddess sent me all the way around the house, etc. That’s a beautiful description for a lovely journey. What happened is you wander’d round back and found the kitchen with a bunch of loud and happy God-and-Goddess-Lovin’ men and women gathered around the biggest damn kitchen table imaginable! :-)

       
  • Thomas Light Stepper | Reply

    Friday, 28th August 2009 at 8:34 PM
     

    I also aggree whole heartedly and I too think its time that people stop circle jerking a word and look and see the circle of unity, I am Filled with Joy to have found this circle and call each My Brothers and Sisters for Our paths begain and end at the same points regardless of the names by which we know our Gods and Goddesses, you may not be in my circle in the flesh but you are in it in in my heart and welcome any time, Merry meet, merry part and merry meet again.

     
  • Being a Harry Potter fanatatic, I can’t help but see a direct relation between these issues and the issues in the book series that deal with relations between the Pureblood versus Muggleborn witches. For those of you that haven’t read the series (and you really should if you haven’t, they are gifts to the soul I tell you), a Pureblood is a witch that was born into a magical family and has learned and grown up with all the traditions and workings of the magical world. A Muggleborn witch was a person born with the gift, but born into a family of muggles (non-magical people).

    Throughout the entire series this underlying plot plays a large role. The Pureblood society looking down upon the Muggleborns, feeling that they didn’t have the right or privledge to call themselves witches since they didn’t have the family lineage. There are so many underlying themes of Witchcraft in these books, I almost dare to think that the author goddess herself may be a Witch. And let me just add that in the book series, not all Pureblood families have the same ideal of “blood purity” and welcome the muggleborns into their world with open arms. And the same follows within our world, not all Witches that are part of a Trad look down upon those that aren’t.

    And just another metaphor that came to mind as I was writing this (please excuse my ramblings! LOL) If you were a master chef and your next door neighbor was a self taught chef, is their food any less tasty? No, it’s not. While both dishes may have a different presentation and underlining flavors to accent it, it’s all ultimately the same thing, food. The same love and devotion goes into the cooking process in both homes.

    Through sites like this, that keep conversations alive and thriving, without the inane backbiting and anger, but through love and brother/sisterhood, we are putting the energy out there to help change and solidify our world. If I’ve learned anything from all that I’ve read here, be it from our author extrodinaire or from the beautiful responses, it is that anything is possible. I enjoy the open discussion this site allows us, and I give to all of you blessings and love. May the universe bring you all the peace and happiness that you all have been bringing to me each day!

    Ok, I’m done now! ROFL Sorry for the long winded chatter =)

     
    • Poor Sitara gets to deal with a cyber coven of witches but she loves it just as much as we love her! Peace and Blessings Michael!

       
    • Excellent post, Michael. I think a lot of people believe that those “initiated” into a tradition with a pedigree have been taught some long-hidden incantations that result in Hollywood-style special-effects flash-and-bang, or special names for divinity that elicits a better response than the names by which the “common folk” know them, etc.

      In the reality that I know, someone whose lips personally touched the arse of Alex Sanders (self-proclaimed “King of the Witches” for those who may not know!) can’t get any more flash ‘n’ bang than the next person… that just isn’t how it works. It’s all about personal transformation, and who you know doesn’t mean jack unless you do the work. True, proper guidance is invaluable, but as with your analogy of the classically-trained chef vs. the cook next door, “the proof is in the pudding”, so to speak.

       
    • You know, I didn’t even make the Harry Potter jump, but you’re right. It’s there, too. Any kind of discrimination where someone holds the key to the lid of the “Sacred Spiritual Cookie Jar” is going to be a problem. The reason I finally posted this thread is so that HOPEFULLY people stressing over this issue will find it and read it and maybe it will help them.

       
  • I’m so late coming into this thread, and so grateful I finally saw it. Gosh, woman, you write a LOT of GOOD stuff! I can’t keep up with it all!

    I have struggled with the Wiccan/not Wiccan thing forever and a day, it seems…and precisely because of the ever-present arguments over initiation/lineage/who’s-in-who’s-out.

    While I knew in my heart that I was just fine, I felt conflicted about the possibility of insulting Wicca and Wiccans by not playing by the rules.

    Conversations we’ve had in person and conversations here on the site have solidified my understanding that I’m just as Wiccan as anyone else because of what I AM, what I BELIEVE, and what I DO, not because how I got here.

    In the words of a true southern WICCAN WITCH…thanks, y’all!

     

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