Comments on: [BREW-HAHA] Body Of A Goddess http://sitarahaye.com/2009/08/27/brew-haha-body-of-a-goddess/ A Witch's Word -- Spiritual Writings For The Modern Witch Sat, 17 Apr 2010 03:27:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Avren http://sitarahaye.com/2009/08/27/brew-haha-body-of-a-goddess/comment-page-1/#comment-1235 Avren Mon, 31 Aug 2009 02:30:23 +0000 http://sitarahaye.com/?p=1592#comment-1235 Blueberries! LOL! That is funny. I guess the correlation I was trying to make is this, when you feel good in your clothes you often feel good in your skin. I know I do. If you feel good inside out and outside in it glows. Blueberries! LOL! That is funny. I guess the correlation I was trying to make is this, when you feel good in your clothes you often feel good in your skin. I know I do. If you feel good inside out and outside in it glows.

]]> By: Colin Bondi http://sitarahaye.com/2009/08/27/brew-haha-body-of-a-goddess/comment-page-1/#comment-1228 Colin Bondi Sun, 30 Aug 2009 19:24:27 +0000 http://sitarahaye.com/?p=1592#comment-1228 You know I used to think I was attracted to a certain body type. I had a problem with my ex-wife's weight or so I thought. I actually really had a problem with the relationship and her weight was an easy place to project the problems that weren't getting dealt with. But now I realize that I am not attracted to a particular body type at all, I'm attracted to individual people. I've met women lately who would be considered overweight by dysfunctional societal standards whom I found breathtakingly beautiful. The focus on a body type as being somehow ideal is the thing that traps people and limits their perception of what they find attractive. If that could be released we would probably find that it varies a great deal. But this happens for men too. I've dealt with this issue in that I find many women want a well built man with bulging muscles and I think this is as damaging to men as the ideal for women is. I don't have time to spend 4 hours a day in the gym lifting weights and bulking up not that I would spend the time that way if I had it. I think we still need to liberate both the Goddess and the God so they are completely free to express themselves in all their uniqueness and variety. Why wait for society, we can do this in our own lives right now.... You know I used to think I was attracted to a certain body type. I had a problem with my ex-wife’s weight or so I thought. I actually really had a problem with the relationship and her weight was an easy place to project the problems that weren’t getting dealt with. But now I realize that I am not attracted to a particular body type at all, I’m attracted to individual people. I’ve met women lately who would be considered overweight by dysfunctional societal standards whom I found breathtakingly beautiful. The focus on a body type as being somehow ideal is the thing that traps people and limits their perception of what they find attractive. If that could be released we would probably find that it varies a great deal.
But this happens for men too. I’ve dealt with this issue in that I find many women want a well built man with bulging muscles and I think this is as damaging to men as the ideal for women is. I don’t have time to spend 4 hours a day in the gym lifting weights and bulking up not that I would spend the time that way if I had it. I think we still need to liberate both the Goddess and the God so they are completely free to express themselves in all their uniqueness and variety. Why wait for society, we can do this in our own lives right now….

]]> By: Millie Fee http://sitarahaye.com/2009/08/27/brew-haha-body-of-a-goddess/comment-page-1/#comment-1206 Millie Fee Sat, 29 Aug 2009 18:51:04 +0000 http://sitarahaye.com/?p=1592#comment-1206 In my case I don't know if it is so much as case of muffin top as Shar Peiism. Wait till you get to the point where you have to pull down your socks just to scratch your butt!!:) In my case I don’t know if it is so much as case of muffin top as Shar Peiism. Wait till you get to the point where you have to pull down your socks just to scratch your butt!!:)

]]> By: Sitara Haye http://sitarahaye.com/2009/08/27/brew-haha-body-of-a-goddess/comment-page-1/#comment-1200 Sitara Haye Sat, 29 Aug 2009 18:28:33 +0000 http://sitarahaye.com/?p=1592#comment-1200 Muffin tops... you know, there's a difference between coaching on body image and coaching someone on style and asking yourself "Does this look good?" regardless of the fashion trend. Unless one's belly is studded with blueberries, I'm not sure where the appeal is in this particular style. Muffin tops… you know, there’s a difference between coaching on body image and coaching someone on style and asking yourself “Does this look good?” regardless of the fashion trend. Unless one’s belly is studded with blueberries, I’m not sure where the appeal is in this particular style.

]]> By: Avren http://sitarahaye.com/2009/08/27/brew-haha-body-of-a-goddess/comment-page-1/#comment-1194 Avren Sat, 29 Aug 2009 14:43:31 +0000 http://sitarahaye.com/?p=1592#comment-1194 I agree with L about being healthy. Now please believe me when I say that I AM NOT throwing mud here, however I have noticed a growing trend with "muffin tops". Now it isn't the girls weight I'm commenting on it's the showcasing. I am no stick, and I try to wear clothes that fit. I've seen many articles in Glamour magazine where they show before and after pics of people tall, short, skinny or heavier women and the heavier girls look AWESOME when they wear the right size and fit for their frame. Why do so many heavy girls wear spandex tops and tight lowrise jeans? That is not empowerment! I certainly don't want to see them in too big clothes either. Wear good fitting clothes and you'll not only be more comfortable, you'll also feel like a million bucks! When your power is shining, no one can tell you that you aren't the Goddess you are, I don't ccare if you are 80lbs or 800. I agree with L about being healthy. Now please believe me when I say that I AM NOT throwing mud here, however I have noticed a growing trend with “muffin tops”. Now it isn’t the girls weight I’m commenting on it’s the showcasing. I am no stick, and I try to wear clothes that fit. I’ve seen many articles in Glamour magazine where they show before and after pics of people tall, short, skinny or heavier women and the heavier girls look AWESOME when they wear the right size and fit for their frame. Why do so many heavy girls wear spandex tops and tight lowrise jeans? That is not empowerment! I certainly don’t want to see them in too big clothes either. Wear good fitting clothes and you’ll not only be more comfortable, you’ll also feel like a million bucks! When your power is shining, no one can tell you that you aren’t the Goddess you are, I don’t ccare if you are 80lbs or 800.

]]> By: Avren http://sitarahaye.com/2009/08/27/brew-haha-body-of-a-goddess/comment-page-1/#comment-1193 Avren Sat, 29 Aug 2009 14:32:52 +0000 http://sitarahaye.com/?p=1592#comment-1193 My computer timed out... any how, Take heart dear, body issues deplete with time. Besides I have gotten more compliments when I'm confident and sure of myself. Personal power is BEAUTIFUL! P.s. Soda is BAD for you, not just as a weight thing but it's bad for your bones and can lead to diabetes. So drink in moderation! With bone structures like ours, we need to keep our bones healthy! LOL! :-) My computer timed out… any how, Take heart dear, body issues deplete with time. Besides I have gotten more compliments when I’m confident and sure of myself. Personal power is BEAUTIFUL!
P.s. Soda is BAD for you, not just as a weight thing but it’s bad for your bones and can lead to diabetes. So drink in moderation! With bone structures like ours, we need to keep our bones healthy! LOL! :-)

]]> By: Avren http://sitarahaye.com/2009/08/27/brew-haha-body-of-a-goddess/comment-page-1/#comment-1192 Avren Sat, 29 Aug 2009 14:28:22 +0000 http://sitarahaye.com/?p=1592#comment-1192 Shyhawk dear, I MUST leave a response here. You have just described yourself exactly the same height and weight as I am. Let me tell you this, you ARE NOT fat. I don't know about you but I feel I could tone my abs a little etc. etc. but you and I have a very wonderful gift. We are tall. When I lost a lot of weight a year ago I dropped to 160 from 190. People kept saying I was getting too skinny. When I told them my weight they didn't believe me. When I told them I was 190 they REALLY didn't believe me! They said, WOW you really carry it well! You are younger than me by ten years, trust me when I say, you'll thank the Goddess for your tall frame when you gain a few pounds! Your 170 is a 5'5 persons 130. You would look like a third world person if you dropped that low! Shyhawk dear, I MUST leave a response here. You have just described yourself exactly the same height and weight as I am. Let me tell you this, you ARE NOT fat. I don’t know about you but I feel I could tone my abs a little etc. etc. but you and I have a very wonderful gift. We are tall. When I lost a lot of weight a year ago I dropped to 160 from 190. People kept saying I was getting too skinny. When I told them my weight they didn’t believe me. When I told them I was 190 they REALLY didn’t believe me! They said, WOW you really carry it well! You are younger than me by ten years, trust me when I say, you’ll thank the Goddess for your tall frame when you gain a few pounds! Your 170 is a 5′5 persons 130. You would look like a third world person if you dropped that low!

]]> By: Winter MoonWolf http://sitarahaye.com/2009/08/27/brew-haha-body-of-a-goddess/comment-page-1/#comment-1180 Winter MoonWolf Sat, 29 Aug 2009 04:14:09 +0000 http://sitarahaye.com/?p=1592#comment-1180 Millie, would you mine sharing it with me, or is it a private lady thing? :o) Us guys could use some educatin' too! My email is wintermoonwolf@ymail.com Millie, would you mine sharing it with me, or is it a private lady thing? :o )

Us guys could use some educatin’ too!

My email is wintermoonwolf@ymail.com

]]> By: Millie Fee http://sitarahaye.com/2009/08/27/brew-haha-body-of-a-goddess/comment-page-1/#comment-1171 Millie Fee Fri, 28 Aug 2009 23:41:00 +0000 http://sitarahaye.com/?p=1592#comment-1171 *********Crickets chirruping???***********;) *********Crickets chirruping???***********;)

]]> By: EileenDalla http://sitarahaye.com/2009/08/27/brew-haha-body-of-a-goddess/comment-page-1/#comment-1167 EileenDalla Fri, 28 Aug 2009 23:09:05 +0000 http://sitarahaye.com/?p=1592#comment-1167 Sitara, you gotta read this. I haven't stopped giggling since I read it. Sitara, you gotta read this. I haven’t stopped giggling since I read it.

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